Its that time of year when weve made resolutions. Most often those resolutions are individual habits wed like to change. Eating more healthfully, stepping up the physical activity pace, and curbing our spending habits might be examples of such habits we may try to address with resolutions.
New Years resolutions are often made and then fall by the wayside fairly quickly, due to our busy lifestyles getting in the way. It just gets hard to meet our ideals versus what is realistic, and we would rather not deal with some of the stresses involved in the follow-through. We begin to put it off.
While resolutions are a result of self-evaluation, Id like to propose a different approach to setting resolutions. It has to do with living life in a richer way taking a more holistic look at life which calls for some assessment of our day-to-day activities.
How are you doing on the happiness scale of life? While thinking about your level of happiness, consider these four factors that give life meaning and satisfaction:
1) A strong, trusting relationship with one or more people;
2) A healthy mind and body;
3) Enough money to live without financial concerns;
4) Knowing oneself and how to nurture and care for oneself.
Basically, we need to ask ourselves: are our current habits likely to contribute to a long, healthy life? A lifestyle of constant busyness can foster irritability, poor decision-making, negative health consequences, and weakened relationships. Sound familiar?
Before a life event or a crisis occurs, some adjustments or resolutions if you may, could be called for.
The following are some thoughts for reflection:
Learn to Say No What current activities could you reduce to lighten your load? Which of these activities are satisfying and which are not?
Stop Making Excuses What excuses do you use that get in the way of accomplishing your wants?
